Ok, you know that to attract women, you have to look good and wear nice clothes. By this I mean no tattered overalls and four-year-old t-shirts that look like Swiss cheese… but one thing that may surprise you is that the most important item in your wardrobe is one of the least noticeable: shoes! Shoes tell a woman a lot about a man, probably more than they CAN say, but that’s the way it is… find out exactly what they say about you and why here.

Believe it or not, the most critical part of your wardrobe is your footwear. We all know how important women are to their own shoes…well, the same goes for YOURS. I know it’s not fair that men aren’t expected to own as many pairs of shoes as their girlfriends, but sometimes it can be necessary, sadly. I know it sounds like a crime against nature, but you might end up with… (shudders)… a cobbler.

What you put on your feet shows a woman your maturity, ability to take care of things and dedication. If you wear nice shoes that match your outfit, are clean and well cared for, you’ll do better than the old pair of sneakers you wear to mowing the lawn. Good shoes are more than just what you wear to hide your ugly feet and protect your toes from sharp sticks… they are in a way a symbol of your positive attitude towards commitment. Unfair, but it’s an unwritten woman’s rule.

Now, I’m not talking about dress shoes for a club, but women like to wear things that are a little more mature than a pair of basketball shoes or sandals…sneakers are acceptable, they just have to be pretty! ! Keep them clean, keep them in one piece, and make sure they match what you’re wearing. If you have a fair amount of variety in your wardrobe, this means you could possibly have a lot more shoes than a man would prefer, but it helps your chances a lot. Oh, and flip-flops are acceptable at the beach or on the streets in the height of summer. Leave them at home when you go clubbing.

You have to have a good selection of footwear… whether you like it or not. This means buying shoes fairly regularly…which is good and bad. Good side: you can go shoe shopping with your girl. Bad side: you have to go shoe shopping with your girl. It all depends on how you look at it, but how SHE looks at it is the most important thing. She wants your shoes to be nice and clean and appropriate, and in a way they are more important than the rest of the outfit, although you KNOW they are looking at that too.

So do yourself a favor. Wear good shoes, if only because they look good. You may also get some benefits from the relationship.

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