Imagine being in a situation where this handsome boy walks into the same party your friend threw. You ask and discover that he is a friend of a friend. If you are eager to get your digits, would you be willing to go to it and ask for it? Or would you just pass up the opportunity?
The first step is to get their attention.
Make sure he saw you during the party. Try to look at him several times and then catch his eye. Once you’ve made eye contact, show him your sexiest smile and nod gently toward him. This should give him a signal to come over to you, and who knows, he might end up asking for your number!
Walk up to him and say hi.
This is the 21st century and it’s perfectly okay for women to be the ones to approach men. When making contact, be sure to introduce yourself appropriately and to converse with common sense. As he becomes more comfortable with your presence, it will be easier to ask for his number casually.
Establish the chemistry.
Talk about topics that he won’t get bored with. Brainstorming is the right thing to do for you too, where you could build a communication connection. If there is instant chemistry between the two of you, it would be so much easier to get your number.
Show that you are interested in him.
The best way to show interest in him is to flirt with him. This should stimulate your ego and somehow loosen your nerves so that it is much easier for you to get your number.
Get to know your friends.
If he’s a friend of your friend, getting his number should be easy. If you are too shy to ask for your cell phone or home number, this is the best thing to do.
Invite him out on a casual date.
Keep it all casual. Ask him out and then casually ask for his digits. The date should be your excuse for getting your number. Tell him that you will need his number to confirm the place and time of the date, as you are not sure of his hours yet. It’s like hitting two birds with one stone. You can ask him out while playing a little hard to get on your schedule.
Fight no more … ask him honestly.
You are a strong and sophisticated woman, so what could prevent you from going up to him and asking him directly? Sometimes all it takes is a little courage …