There are 3 simple keys to maintaining a strong, healthy, and happy marriage.
With all the drama and pop culture surrounding marriage, it’s no wonder so many Christian marriages end in divorce. But the truth is, it doesn’t have to be that way.
As a Christian wife, this is what this means to you. If you can understand the power of God within you to overcome any weapon the enemy presents, you can create a whole new marriage.
Now, I understand that your husband also has a responsibility, but this journey to a happy marriage can start with you… if that’s what you want.
What 3 key actions are they?
Let’s see the 3 keys to experience and stay happily married:
1) Recognize that the devil sets you up to bother you because he knows your weaknesses or areas of growth. Be honest about your growth areas. For example, if you don’t like having sex, ask yourself why. Sex, among other things, often plays an important role in the marriage relationship. In the early years of our now twenty years of marriage, I was unable to fully enjoy sex due to the baggage of past relationships.
But instead of wallowing in self-pity and blaming other men for why I couldn’t enjoy my husband in an intimate way, I took action and worked to break the soul ties of my past so that I could give my husband everything in the future. . bedroom.
2) Constantly forgive your husband. Give it the space and grace to grow. You want him to do the same for you, don’t you?
This does not include serial abuse and adultery. If this is the case, I encourage you to get help from a faith-based third party, such as a pastor, counselor, or organization that specializes in these areas.
3) Make prayer a priority. I’ll be honest, for many years (yes, as a Christian), I didn’t like to pray. In fact, I dreaded it because it felt like he was saying the same thing every day, but getting no results. But what I discovered was that I needed to learn to pray in God’s language and believe that what I was saying was true and would come to pass.
Of these three keys, I recommend beginning your path to a happy marriage with prayer first. Being able to pray properly for your marriage is not complicated.