Do you have what it takes to make a guy commit to you and your relationship? Do you feel like you’re ready to commit but your guy is dragging his feet? Do you want to know how you can get him to promise his devotion without scaring him with your feelings? If he answered yes to these questions, then he is not alone. Many women are ready to make a man commit to them, but don’t know how to take that first step. While you can’t force someone to do something they don’t want to do, you can help give them a little nudge in the right direction.
Be proactive.
If you just let the subject slide, then you’ll probably never be able to get a guy to commit to you. However, if you push too hard, you could scare him off. While women are generally ready to commit once they are happy and in love, men may take longer. Many guys think that giving up their freedom is too much, even if things don’t change as much as they think they will. What you need to do is make him see that the benefits of committing to you outweigh the results of how his life will change if he lets you go.
Stay busy.
It can be quite unfair if you are the only one in the relationship who has committed. After all, you shouldn’t be the only one sacrificing something, as this is a partnership. The first thing you should do is stop being available to him. He could be taking you and your presence for granted. What you have to do is back up a bit. This will allow him to see that you add something to his life and that he will miss those things you add if you are gone. This alone might be enough to change your mind.
Be careful.
Sometimes a guy will say that he wants a commitment just to make his partner happy. Be sure to watch his actions as well as his words. If he says he wants a commitment but is still seeing other girls, then you should contact him to make sure you’re on the same page as to what your expectations are for your relationship.
If you follow these two tips, you will be able to make a guy commit to you. He just waits and everything will be fine!