While male chastity stories can be erotic and exciting in themselves, this is not the only or even the main extent of their usefulness.
Let me explain.
In my experience, one of the hardest things about the male chastity lifestyle is not so much living it yourself…but broaching it with your partner in the first place.
In my research and experience, it seems that the vast majority of couples who adopt the male chastity lifestyle do so because the man somehow brought up the issue and led the woman to investigate the issue further. And indeed, that is what happened in my case with John, and it is tangentially why I have written this and other articles.
Only rarely, it seems, does the woman bring up the subject.
In any case, it’s not too important who brings it up because in any case the fundamental problem remains: how do you do it without scaring the other person away?
Fortunately, one answer is to use stories of male chastity to build an emotional and erotic atmosphere rather than just mechanically explaining the bare facts of the matter.
The reason to do this is when we are emotionally invested in something, if that emotion is positive, it becomes more acceptable to us (and in the same way we can make something less acceptable by invoking a negative emotion, such as hate, disgust, etc.). , aversion, etc.).
And indeed, emotional connection is at the root of all good marketing and persuasion techniques. And the easiest way to get your woman or her man warmed up under the collar about the male chastity lifestyle?
Telling her some male chastity stories.
However, it’s not necessarily as simple as letting go.”I found this story on a forum the other day.“, because that might require some explanation of its own.
Of course, if your relationship is such that this will not cause any problems, then go ahead.
But in case you’d rather not do this, I have some simple strategies to make these stories go under the radar, so to speak.
The first technique involves a small amount of deception. I do not make any recommendation or value judgment on this; I am simply giving you tips on how you can make male chastity stories work for you.
All you need to do is write down your male chastity fantasy as you would like to develop it in your own life and then share it with your partner in the context of “Hey, my friend Joe just emailed me this really interesting story… what do you think?“
Now, your partner may not care in the slightest… but if you’ve written the story well and worked hard on the benefits for the character your partner represents (in your mind), then chances are. whatever it is will work very well indeed.
A second way, similar to the first, is to tell the story orally; repeat it like a conversation you had with someone at work, for example. Something like that, “I heard the most amazing story from Bill at work today. He was telling me about a friend of his that he used to know. Well, this man and his wife used to…“and keep developing the story as you would like your own fantasy to unfold.
A third technique doesn’t strictly use male chastity stories, but it comes close enough. This is exactly how John got me interested in the male chastity lifestyle. It’s a little more direct and, frankly, more honest than the other two approaches, but I suspect it takes a lot more courage.
What you do is put your partner in a receptive frame of mind, perhaps when you’re snuggling in bed after making love, or when you’ve shared a romantic moment and the conversation turns to fantasies. It is important that you do this at a time when you are around; if you do it while your partner is running around looking for the car keys, you’re likely to get a withering response.
The final idea is to suggest that you both write your main fantasies on a piece of paper and then exchange them. Your fantasy, of course, or at least one of them, will be the male chastity lifestyle (if you’re very lucky, your partner’s will be too, but that would be something of a miracle!).
As with male chastity stories, write this fantasy in a way that clearly shows the benefits to your partner and not just about you.