How to make a man propose to you? Is there anything you can do to make him put a ring on your finger and commit to you? If you want your boyfriend to propose to you, it’s important to understand marriage and commitment from a man’s perspective. Doing so will allow you to alleviate some of his fears and convince him that you are the only woman in the world for him.
Marriage for a man is a great responsibility. When a man commits himself to a woman, he is assuming the responsibility and social obligation to care for and provide for his wife and future family. While a woman may choose to work after marriage, a man is expected to work and support his family.
A man who commits often gives up on some of his goals and dreams. He will take a higher paying job instead of a job he would enjoy due to the financial responsibilities he feels. Men also worry about wasting time with their male friends, losing their privacy, and wasting their alone time. In many ways, a man loses when he commits because he has less control over his own life. He has fewer options. This can make men extremely cautious when it comes to proposing.
Here are some things you should and shouldn’t do if you want your boyfriend to propose to you.
Avoid These Things If You Want Him To Propose
- Don’t complain, don’t whine or keep reminding him that he hasn’t proposed to you yet.
- Don’t constantly talk about the big and expensive wedding of your dreams. Doing so can leave you feeling financially stressed and worried.
- Do not accumulate resentment towards him because he has not proposed to you yet.
- Don’t “get carried away.” Men fall in love with you just the way you are. They don’t want you to ever change, but they fear you will after marriage, since most women gain an average of 15 pounds after they’re married.
- Don’t let sex and intimacy diminish your relationship. Men abandon the fantasy of being with many different beautiful women to be monogamous in hopes of gaining intimacy, emotional security, and a consistent sexual partner.
Take These Steps If You Want Him To Propose Sooner Rather Than Later
- Accept it for what it is and never try to change it. Make sure you are in love with him and not with his potential.
- Ease her financial worries by letting her know that the two of you are financial partners.
- Understand your need to succeed in all aspects of life. Don’t complain because he works long hours trying to get ahead. Instead, tell him how amazing he is at everything he does.
- Give him his privacy and alone time. Spend time with your friends so he can spend time with his.
- Withdraw a bit emotionally and physically if you feel like he’s not proposing to you because he’s in a “comfort zone.”
- He works hard to remain the same attractive woman he fell in love with. He remembers that men don’t want women to change.
A man’s main fear is being trapped with a woman who abandons her femininity and glamour, with children who require extra time, attention and expense to the point where he becomes nothing more than a working robot trying to support everyone. Allay these fears and you’ll have a much better chance of seeing him drop to his knees as a tear rolls down your cheek.