My wife has lost her feelings for me, it’s not something I want to hear you say. Although we are all well aware of staggering divorce rates, we still marry with the intention of being with our spouse forever. When you find out that your wife isn’t as interested in the marriage anymore or that her feelings for you have changed drastically, it’s hard to swallow. You naturally imagine that with her announcement will come divorce papers and a future without her. That doesn’t have to be the case at all. If you love your wife and want the marriage to prosper, you must take matters into your own hands. You can make your wife feel emotionally connected to you again and make her completely adore you. You just need to know how to make it happen.
Once you realize that your wife has lost her feelings for you, you may be inclined to tell her that it’s just a passing phase she’s going through. In virtually every case where a wife feels a strong emotional disconnect with her husband, it has nothing to do with it being temporary. It is a symptom of a real problem within the marriage. She no longer feels as close to you and you need to determine why. The easiest way to do this is to ask her what has changed for her. Be prepared to hear her tell you some very honest things about what has made her feel the distance that she now feels. Listen carefully to what she shares, as she will use that information to fix the problem and bring it back to you.
Often the reason a woman loses her feelings for her husband is that he stops sharing his feelings with her. He no longer goes out of his way to make her feel the love and adoration that he felt in the early days of her relationship. If you think that’s contributing to how she’s feeling now, you need to take drastic steps to change that. He must make her marriage his number one priority and start working to make his wife feel close to you again.
Tell your wife what she means to you. Don’t hold back anything. Explain to her how lost you would be without her and how much you appreciate her as your life partner. Apologize for any behavior of yours that may have hurt her or inadvertently alienated her. Make it clear that you will do anything to make her happy again, and mean it. Your wife has to see that all of this comes from a place of genuine worship within your heart. If she feels that you truly love her more than anything, she will begin to break down the emotional walls that she built around her.