In a relationship, it’s not uncommon for one person to be logical and the other emotional. Then it can seem that one person provides what the other lacks, thus balancing each other.
By themselves they are unbalanced, but together they end up becoming the ultimate team. Perhaps one of them has a mostly left-brain job, while the other has a mostly right-brain job.
Two parts
When it comes to the person who primarily uses their left brain, they might have a job in the city, for example. This may mean that they spend a lot of time on a computer and having business meetings.
As for the person who mainly uses his right brain, he might as well have a job in the city. However, even if this is the case, it may mean that they do something creative or spend a lot of time caring for others in some way.
A little of both
However, the fact that both of you have a stronger connection with one part of your nature does not mean that the other part of your being is not fully developed. As a result of this, the person who is primarily logical will still be able to relate on an emotional level, and the person who is emotional will still be able to relate on a logical level.
If this were not so, it might appear that one of them is from Mars while the other is from Venus. They would be so different from each other that the relationship would end up being very challenging.
a stronger connection
Therefore, since both of you can relate on an emotional level, it will allow you to have a much more satisfying relationship than otherwise. And since you’re both able to think clearly, this will help too.
So you could say that being different is what brought them together, but it’s what they have in common that keeps them together. This does not mean that the conflict will never arise; what it means is that they will have the ability to solve it.
the polarity
Naturally, if they were too similar, it is unlikely that they would have the same level of attraction for each other. Instead of being intimate, they could end up just being friends.
One of them will have a strong connection to his masculine element and the other will have a strong connection to his feminine element. This will allow them to work together instead of having to compete with each other.
a different scenario
Now, although there will be relationships that are like that, where two people complement each other, there will also be relationships that are not like that. Instead, there may be a relationship where one person is very logical and finds it difficult to relate on an emotional level, while the other is very emotional and finds it difficult to relate on a logical level.
Consequently, many conflicts are likely to arise in their relationship, and it will be a challenge for them to resolve them. The opinion that one of them is from Mars and the other from Venus can make a lot of sense.
The problem
When it comes to the person whose attention is typically in their head, you may see your partner as underdeveloped and lacking in self-control, for example. They may have a hard time understanding how they ended up with someone like that.
Much of your time could be spent reading books and educating your mind, something your partner probably won’t have any interest in doing. On the surface, it may seem that one of them is much more evolved than the other.
A common perspective
What may play a role in this is that the intellect is often considered a higher part of one’s being than their emotional self. It can be as if one’s emotions are just a distraction and should be ignored.
Because of this, it will not be a surprise if they see themselves in a superior position. However, while they may have this point of view, it does not mean that it is the truth.
Out of balance
Intellectually, this person may be evolved, but when it comes to their emotional self, they may be underdeveloped. The person they are with is simply mirroring what is going on inside of them.
If you don’t have a good connection with your emotional self, you won’t be able to see the connection. The other person will be seen as the one with the problems, while they are above everything.
top heavy
If one were to get in touch with their emotional self, they may find that they are carrying a lot of emotional pain. Getting out of your head and embracing the pain in your body can make you just as out of control as your partner often is.
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The problem with your mind is that it can give you the impression that you are just observing what is going on around you, without having any effect. In actuality, you are playing apart in what you do or do not experience.
Awareness
If one can relate to this and wants to become a more integrated human being, they may need to seek outside support. This is something that can be provided with the help of a therapist or healer.