Good and bad relationships break every day for different reasons. What you need to know is that when someone breaks up with you and says “it’s not you, it’s me”, you need to know that it’s your fault. A man or a woman stays with someone because of how they feel when they are with that person and how they feel when they are not with that person. Here are some tips to help you avoid a breakup in your future.
#1 Avoid getting upset over little things. You may not put the cap back on the paste tube, but when you really need them, they’ll be there for you.
#2: A Daily Wake Up Compliment Starts Everyone’s Day on a Good Note
#3: Give love and attention, as painful as it sounds, ladies, there is a time or place for it.
#4: Don’t ask questions if you’re not ready for the answer.
#5: Learn to be patient with each other. If you treat the person you work with with more patience and respect than your soul mate, you are on the road to relationship breakdown.
#6: If you’re upset with your lover, don’t engage in any conversation until you’ve had time to reflect on your thoughts. Once you are calm, in a private area, start asking questions rationally.
#7: Cheating on your partner could be deadly for your relationship. As of this writing, Tiger Woods is in the spotlight for allegedly cheating on his wife. Would you like to be in his shoes right now and deal with all the emotions? Cheating never brings anything good in any relationship, don’t do it.
#8: Understand that he or she may need some personal space from time to time. For him, it could be hanging out with the boys on Sunday to watch football, for her, it could be going to happy hour with the coworkers on Friday. It’s healthy, just accept it and you’ll see, if you encourage it, they’ll come sooner than if you complain.
#9: Support each other even if you think they are wrong. People need to know that you are there no matter what. Don’t worry, he or she will realize they are wrong. Don’t be the messenger, people often kill the messenger!!
#10: Jealousy has its place in a relationship, but it is small. Nobody likes to be restricted in what he does because of his insecurity. If your jealousy is cute, that’s fine, but keep it on the lighter side.
#11: Don’t talk about your ex. Nothing good can come of it.
These are just a few tips to help you avoid a relationship breakup or understand why you might have had a breakup. Remember, a man and a woman stay together because of how the other makes them feel, not for other reasons. Once you learn that, you will have a very successful relationship.