Without repeating the usual clichés that I see on many websites that claim to offer advice on how to attract or date Chinese women, I would like to offer you 2 golden techniques that I have found to be absolute winners when trying to attract Chinese women. Having lived in China for over eight years and dating a wide range of Chinese women, I can tell you that many methods of attracting Western women do not work the same way with Chinese women, and some of the commonly mentioned techniques have little relevance to Chinese women. Chinese society today.
First of all, you need to know an irrefutable fact, because Chinese culture is largely based on Confucianism and conformity, many Chinese women have the same way of thinking and psychology as others; they also follow similar reactions to certain external stimuli that I have noticed are exceptionally predictable for the most part (I estimate a ratio of about 80% fact to my statement based on experience), whereas with western women this is not the case at all. With this in mind, we can find some truly winning techniques that will have an incredibly high success rate, I know this is the case because I use them all the time, and they work!
Let’s take a look at some of them that will really put you “in the zone” if you use them:
1. Be a man! Now, while Western women mostly expect you to care about equality, Chinese women really don’t; Leaving aside all political correctness for the moment out of necessity, I would like to make something clear to you: ‘Chinese women like men who can make decisions, and above all they are not shy to admit it.’ When trying to choose a dish for dinner, don’t go ‘ummm and errrrr’, make a decision for her if she seems unsure. It is attractive to her and to some extent she expects from you. If she has a strong will, you will soon find out.
two. Be sure to put some food in her bowl (if you’re eating Chinese food) or just take some of your food from your plate and put it on hers (if your plate is different from hers), this way she can taste it too. yours. When you do this with a Chinese woman, she will feel that you are showing how responsible and considerate you are to her. This Chinese dating etiquette action can really compel her to be attracted to you. If you don’t believe me, try it and see how her eyes light up.